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Hi, I’m Odinakachukwu Ndukwe. I love observing people and the reason they behave the way they do. I’m fascinated about the broad topic of life, so I’m mostly in my head. My blog is a way to share what I learn and to help you and me both to understand ourselves better. Welcome to my blog.

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Can you relate to this behaviour or do you know pe

Can you relate to this behaviour or do you know people like that?

I saw this quote in my notes app and I had no idea

I saw this quote in my notes app and I had no idea who I heard it from. I know it’s not mine though and I wish I could attach their name. I feel like I heard it from my pastor in church but I’m not sure.

I think it’s a pretty deep quote because sometimes we deny our mistakes when we are the ones at fault and we try to put the blame on someone or something else. It’s important you take responsibility for your mistakes. Your mistakes don’t define you but you can indeed learn great things from your mistakes when you’re not busy denying them.

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I actually wrote down the caption to this post sin

I actually wrote down the caption to this post since last weekend (an applaud for planning please) answering the question why. But somehow I read it again and it sounded commercial, like a pitch and I know there's the struggle to put out what you'll be offering people; what they will gain by following you and I guess that's why it read that way. So I've decided to do a fresh caption.

How do I want to share my why (understanding yourself and others better) with y'all?

I'm just a girl that loves to read and think about things pertaining to human behaviour and life, especially how human behaviour affects certain outcomes in life. So I'll be sharing some of the things I've learned so far about behaviour, well-being and life and I'll be sharing new things as I learn them. I'll also be sharing some of my thoughts about people and life and hopefully you share yours too so we can have a conversation and learn from each other.

With what I will be sharing and the content I will be creating, I hope it makes you understand yourself and people better because you will definitely learn a thing or more about yourself, about people and about this life we live in. ❤️

Why do we ever do anything that we do? Why did you

Why do we ever do anything that we do? Why did you go to school? Why are you on Earth? Why do you help the people you help? Why are you friends with so so and so? Why?

If you're in the creative space you have definitely heard the phrase 'find your why' and for long I've struggled with that. I even took classes, paid and free and I still couldn't figure it out. It wasn't the classes actually, it was me. Truth is I was looking at how others did stuff and I thought I could tailor my why like theirs but eventually, it didn't work. So I took a break and I sat down and thought of why I started my blog in the first place.

I started my blog in 2017 after my graduation and I did so to share my thoughts about life and why people do the things they do because it fascinated me. I realized that the reason for sharing was to understand and get people to join me to understand so we share ideas and we become better people, people that are more informed.

My 'Why' is to help people (including myself; most especially myself) understand themselves and others better so we can all have an understanding of each other and relate better. I believe to relate better with people, understanding is key and to relate better with yourself, you need to understand who you are; why you do the things you do and what your needs really are. This definitely involves being self aware, some emotional work and being open to learning. Since I love learning, I share what I learn and I hope that you share also and we all grow. The goal is to help you an I both improve inwardly and to see and understand people more so we can relate with people better and make meaningful relationships

Does it scare me that even after I have found my Why, I still won't be consistent? Well, it does tbh but I think what's important is showing up, at least for now.

So back to you, Why?
You're probably wondering 'why what?' 'Why' anything, 'Why' do you do the things you do?

Why?

Who are you? When asked this question, I'm not su

Who are you?

When asked this question, I'm not sure anyone is ready to give an answer until they have thought about the question at least once. Do you even know what to say when asked? Should you talk about your background, education, accomplishments, interests and so on? Well, let me try.

Who am I?
I'm Odinakachukwu Ndukwe, my friends call me Nakas. I'm just a simple girl still figuring out this life as it goes on and trying to make the most of it. Good thing is I'm not alone, I have the Holy Spirit in me and I rest in the finished work of Christ. I'm a Medical Laboratory Scientist by profession and I'm a creative. When I'm not at work or blogging, I'm writing articles for other blogs or anything writable for money. I also edit & proofread documents (copy editing) and recently I've been leaning towards content marketing (my interests change sha, don't be surprised in a few months if I change it to robotics😂). Oh, I also write a little something you could call poems (still don't know how to name what I write). I'm a blogger, as most of y'all know. I'm quiet by nature and more of a listener and observer. The topic of human behaviour interests me and how it affects life. It's actually the main reason for my blog.

I'm also an introvert but I love making friends although one on one and not where there are lots of people (I shut down mentally and just want to escape). I love conversations with people because I get to hear their opinions, experiences and get to really see them. I think it's quite interesting and gives me things to think about plus it makes me understand people more and appreciate them. I think there's so much beauty in people and I try as much as possible to love and see people the way God does. Some people say I give off a snobbish and aloof vibe but y'all, it's the face and the almost lack of social skills but hey, I'm trying.

PS. I can be playful, it could be annoying and I'm definitely a talker once I'm comfortable with you. My friends can testify, sometimes I am a clown too 😂😂 Enough about me now. I'm gonna ask you now.

Who are you?

Not that we are competent in ourselves to claim an

Not that we are competent in ourselves to claim anything for ourselves...
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