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Hi, I’m Odinakachukwu Ndukwe. I love observing people and the reason they behave the way they do. I’m fascinated about the broad topic of life, so I’m mostly in my head. My blog is a way to share what I learn and to help you and me both to understand ourselves better. Welcome to my blog.

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Understand yourself & others better✨
I learn & share about life, behaviour & wellbeing💫
Your words have life, use it wisely❤️

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Swipe for more. BTW, how do you cope in negative

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BTW, how do you cope in negative stressful situations?

As for me, I’m a blocker and an avoider. I simply avoid having to deal with negative stressful situations and I block a lot. I do this using distractions, or I try to be busy (it just takes your mind away from your troubles). It definitely doesn’t solve the problem and it makes healing hard. I thank God for progress and each time, I’m proud of my growth because I’ve come a long way✌🏾

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Did you know that some of the problems and misunde

Did you know that some of the problems and misunderstanding we have are mainly due to communication problems.

Many of us think we can communicate but some of us don’t actually know how to.

We think communication is by just saying something or giving instructions but it’s much more than that.

I will be hosting an effective communication class. The main aim of the class is to learn to communicate appropriately and to do so in a way that helps grow your relationships and resolve intending conflicts.

You’ll be learning
- What clear effective communication is and what it’s not
- What it means to be an engaged listener
- How to identify your and other people’s communication styles & needs and what to do with that information
- How to communicate more effectively in person and through other medium
- What non-verbal communication is and how to recognize body languages
- What it means to be assertive and how to do so effectively

The class will be held for 3 days, from Saturday, August 8th to August 10th and the registration fee is 1500 Naira. Swipe for more details.

If you’re interested, DM me. If you know someone that would be interested in this, please share also.

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We often see the world through the lens of our own

We often see the world through the lens of our own experiences, personality and beliefs.

Not that it’s a bad thing on its own but sometimes it allows close mindedness and we become full of judgments.

Sometimes we need to understand that people were not brought up the way we were and neither do they have the opportunity or kind of experience we have.

I can’t say you should try not to make your experiences, personality and beliefs affect how you perceive things. No. That’s going to be really hard. I simply want you to understand that sometimes you can be biased and judgmental about certain things. Being aware of this would help you in your communication and understanding of others and it can also make you know how you might help or support them and even yourself.

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Lately I’ve been involved in a few things that I

Lately I’ve been involved in a few things that I consider as important to me and I’m proud of myself. However I feel scared, maybe because I’m leaving my comfort zone. Just recently I haven’t been feeling motivated enough but I know that I should keep on. If I wait for motivation, I might not get anything done.

I also have questions about this life I wish I had answers to them but I think I’m trying to get comfortable with the fact that I might not get answers until I’m gone.

Anyway, how are you doing? Also, I’d appreciate a prayer. Thanks 🙏

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