You know how people’s insecurities seem like you are the problem, you’re not. They are the problem, it’s their insecurities that pushes them away and makes them almost sabotage a good thing. You’ll be there overthinking what you did wrong but you didn’t do anything. Relax.
Hopefully, you are not the ‘they’ I am talking about. Point is, sometimes the problem isn’t you, it’s them and the trauma, emotional issues and insecurities they are yet to deal with.